When getting your ex back make sure that you don't come across as being needy, this is a mistake that a lot of people make. People desire the most what they feel they can't have. They will not feel like coming back to you if they think that they can have you back at anytime. You want them to feel that they can not have you, so they that they will not think twice about working harder to get your attention.
No matter how you broke up, either if you were the one called if off or if they were, don't hold a grudge. It would be easy to hold resentment for the breakup or for behaviors that you didn’t like the other person did. But allowing yourself to be angry can stop your progress to get together, forget any mistakes that you are the other person made.
Look back over the relationship and see if it was definite reason or maybe a particular event that you or the other person wanted to avoid that caused the breakup. Is the event or behavior something that can be different? Think about what can make the relationship different if you where to get back together.
When you think about your relationship and what you should do make sure that you are thinking clearly, breaking up can be make you feel a lot of emotions and acting on that emotion can make the situation worse. You could say or do something that could cause the other person not want to get together.
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